{"id":133130,"date":"2022-11-29T09:06:05","date_gmt":"2022-11-29T14:06:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/webapp2.wright.edu\/web1\/newsroom\/?p=133130"},"modified":"2022-11-29T09:06:06","modified_gmt":"2022-11-29T14:06:06","slug":"random-acts-of-kindness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/webapp2.wright.edu\/web1\/newsroom\/2022\/11\/29\/random-acts-of-kindness\/","title":{"rendered":"Random acts of kindness"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_133140\" style=\"width: 470px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/webapp2.wright.edu\/web1\/newsroom\/2022\/11\/29\/random-acts-of-kindness\/brieanna-wilkoff-1\/\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-133140\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-133140\" class=\"size-large wp-image-133140\" src=\"https:\/\/webapp2.wright.edu\/web1\/newsroom\/files\/2022\/11\/Brieanna-Wilkoff-1-508x400.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"460\" height=\"362\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-133140\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Wright State English graduate Brieanna Wilkoff spreads messages of kindness through her life and new book.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Kindness has always been one of the central themes in Brieanna Wilkoff\u2019s life and in her newly published young adult novel, \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/brieannawilkoff.com\/\">I\u2019ll Be There for You<\/a>.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Wilkoff, who graduated from Wright State University in 2004 with a <a href=\"https:\/\/liberal-arts.wright.edu\/humanities-and-cultural-studies\/bachelor-of-arts-in-english-creative-writing-concentration\">bachelor\u2019s degree in English, with a concentration in creative writing<\/a>, said that after graduation she worked as an editor at an advertising agency for 15 years and most recently switched to working in marketing for a health care technology company.<\/p>\n<p>However, she never lost sight of her dream of being a published author nor did she lose her desire to practice kindness on a daily basis and to try to inspire others to do the same.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI love words and I have always been an avid reader,\u201d she said. \u201cMy first story was written at age 8 as a gift to a friend. I still have it. The story was about the two of us going on a very short adventure. Throughout my childhood, middle school and high school, I dabbled in just about every type of writing, and around college-age, I started writing middle grade, then young adult fiction and that is pretty much what I have done ever since. That just felt like the right place for me and I really enjoy doing it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019ll Be There for You\u201d is a story about an \u201980s rock- and theater-loving 16-year-old girl who is struggling to come to terms with the death of her father and how the power of kindness helps her to heal.<\/p>\n<p>Wilkoff said she began instilling the virtues of kindness in her own daughter, who is now 10 years old, from a very early age.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cShe is an only child and an only grandchild on both sides. I realized she was going to have just crazy Christmases with gifts,\u201d Wilkoff said. \u201cI didn\u2019t want the holiday season to just become a countdown to presents. I wanted it to be something that we lead up to by thinking about other people as well.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>They started a tradition in which on each day in December Wilkoff and her husband and daughter write down something kind that they could do for someone, put it on a post-it note and put them in a jar. Throughout the rest of the year, they randomly pull out a note and do what is on it.<\/p>\n<p>One of the ways Wilkoff\u2019s family chooses to spread kindness is by making contributions to the Ronald McDonald House, putting together and dropping off snack bags for the people staying there and organizing a stuffed animal drive. Wilkoff said the charity is particularly meaningful to her because her parents stayed at one when she had open heart surgery as a child.<\/p>\n<p>After \u201cI\u2019ll Be There for You\u201d was published, Wilkoff thought it would be nice to encourage other people to join in her kindness mission. In the book, characters use post-it notes to share kind messages on people\u2019s lockers or car windshields.<\/p>\n<p>This gave her the idea to create post-it notes that feature some of the art from the book. She would pass them out at author events to encourage people to use them to spread random messages of kindness and perform other random acts of kindness.<\/p>\n<p>Wilkoff\u2019s goal is to see if the movement can generate 50,000 acts of kindness, creating a kindness domino effect. She has been encouraging those who participate to post their acts of kindness on Twitter, Instagram and Facebook with the hashtags #kindnessdominoeffect and #50thousandactsofkindness so that they can be added to the total.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s about trying to get people to think about kindness on a regular basis. For example, a waitress told me that she will randomly pick someone once a week and pay for their meal but not tell them it\u2019s her,\u201d she said. \u201cIt can also be something simple like the post-it notes, or my daughter will tell me if she sees someone in school who looks like they could use a friend, she will make a point to talk to them.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Wilkoff said that if people aren\u2019t comfortable posting on social media they can also let her know personally through the <a href=\"https:\/\/brieannawilkoff.com\/contact\/\">contact page<\/a> on her website.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019ll Be There for You,\u201d which is published through Winding Road Stories, can be found on <a href=\"https:\/\/brieannawilkoff.com\/\">Wilkoff\u2019s website<\/a> as well as on Amazon, Barnes and Noble and Bookshop.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kindness has always been one of the central themes in Wright State English graduate Brieanna Wilkoff\u2019s life and in her young adult novel, \u201cI\u2019ll Be There for You.\u201d <a href=\"https:\/\/webapp2.wright.edu\/web1\/newsroom\/2022\/11\/29\/random-acts-of-kindness\/\" class=\"morelink\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":70,"featured_media":133141,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[722,733,725,4863,747,715],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-133130","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-academics","category-alumni","category-home-news-sidebar","category-humanities-and-cultural-studies","category-liberal-arts","category-news"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/webapp2.wright.edu\/web1\/newsroom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/133130","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/webapp2.wright.edu\/web1\/newsroom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/webapp2.wright.edu\/web1\/newsroom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/webapp2.wright.edu\/web1\/newsroom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/70"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/webapp2.wright.edu\/web1\/newsroom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=133130"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/webapp2.wright.edu\/web1\/newsroom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/133130\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":133150,"href":"https:\/\/webapp2.wright.edu\/web1\/newsroom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/133130\/revisions\/133150"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/webapp2.wright.edu\/web1\/newsroom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/133141"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/webapp2.wright.edu\/web1\/newsroom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=133130"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/webapp2.wright.edu\/web1\/newsroom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=133130"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/webapp2.wright.edu\/web1\/newsroom\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=133130"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}